Q: How do I come out to the people in my child’s life?
A: Choosing how and when to come out to the people in your child’s life about your gender identity can be a difficult thing to navigate, and there is certainly no one right way to do it. Some individuals may choose to be open about their identity with select individuals or with everyone in their family’s lives and social spheres, whereas some may want to wait until their child is old enough to decide for themself who they’d like to tell. The decision as to who you come out to and when to do so is one that should be made after discussing and thinking through what is best for you and your family. Visit our Readings & Viewings page for further resources and information on transmasculine reproduction and parenthood. To hear about the lived experiences of transmasculine individuals and how they chose to navigate coming out in their family, check out our Oral Histories page.
Q: How do I teach my child about gender?
A: Teaching your child about gender and gender identity can be difficult, especially in deciding how to approach the topic at an age-appropriate level. For some ideas on how to incorporate discussions about gender in your child’s everyday life, visit our article sharing Three Ideas On How to Engage Your Children in Conversations About Gender. For more ideas on gender-creative parenting including baby shower ideas and an interview with a Two-Spirit gestational parent regarding their approach to gender in parenting practices, check out these resources by Trans Fertility Co. Visit our Readings & Viewings page for further resources and information on transmasculine reproduction and parenthood. To hear about the lived experiences of transmasculine individuals and how they chose to navigate gender in their family, check out our Oral Histories page.
Q: Where can I find parental support?
A: For emotional and educational support, check out our Family Centers, Support Groups & Webinars resource page. For therapeutic and psychiatric help and support, visit our Mental Health Resources page. Visit our Readings & Viewings page for further resources and information on transmasculine reproduction and parenthood.